Dear Family,
Ok, this week was super legit, but also super hard as well. But...lets start with the legit stuff first!
I learned something super funny today. So we work in 3 small
cities (Rio Bravo, Laredo, and El Cenizo) El Cenizo has the highest
crime rate out of all the areas in the mission! Wooohoo! haha
Also, the tie thing is ridiculous. I have already
gotten maybe 20-25 extra ties here. Some of the elders have 600-800
ties. It's craZY boy! For example the AP's here have such good ties, the
won't even get Donald Trump's ties anymore because they are too "cheap"
for them. They wear brands like Prada, Lui Vuittan, Ted Baker's, City
of London, and stuff like that. It's ridiculous. One of them has a Prada
tie that is worth about 500-600 dollars. IT's nuts.
So, those families we have been teaching have
been progressing well, and they seemed to be super excited with their
baptism date.
Then, yesterday we were driving
down the street when we saw a lady named B... (she was an old
investigator that had to stop taking lessons because her dad didn't like
it...which is funny because she is 60 years old and her dad is 82...she
had some financial problems and couldn't. so she's trying to find a new
place to live) anyway, we decided to just stop and talk to her to see
how she was doing. She had read 75+ pages off the Book of Mormon without
anyone telling her. She's somewhere in 2nd Nephi right now. She
understands it really well too. She was so excited to see us that she
invited us over to her daughter's house so we could continue to teach
her. So we are going there tonight. She wants to be baptized and seems
willing to do just about anything to do it. So, Ill have to let you know
how that goes.
Ok, bad news. That S..... family that we found and
started teaching that was doing so well didn't make it to church
yesterday. Her dad had a stroke and so they left to Laredo and were
there all day, but they invited us to come today. So, I'm excited about
that.
Then, G..... all the sudden disappeared on Sunday
also...we couldn't get a hold of him. So we're going to try to make it
over there today also and see if we can figure out what happened. It was
really disappointing....
Also, please don't freak out or be angry...but I was helping a member put together a swing set thing (on Thursday)
and tweaked my back a little. It didnt seem too bad so I just went on.
Everyday seemed to get a little worse until yesterday in church I
literally couldn't sit through the whole thing so we had to go back.
Well...when I got here Hermana Maluenda (President's wife) told me to
call her if I had trouble with my back and she'd help me get a cortizone
shot or what I needed. So, I called her...and she said she would call
the area doctor and tell him my history and then he would call me back
and tell me what to do...
So he calls me back a couple hours later and tells
me that it's super hard to get a cortizone shot here (that was well
thought through) because the doctors want to do it there own way, and
they want to give me a MRI and then decide what I need and then if I got
the shot I would have to be super careful for the next couple weeks so
that I didn't relapse again. Then he asked if I had a copy of a recent
MRI (who would bring that with them on their mission?) and I said
no...so he said he would try to figure something out and to call him
back tomorrow (today).
Then at like 10:30
last night guess who called me?? Doctor Hayes. He said that (and he was super nice) if a cortizone shot wasnt
working after 2x's it probably wouldn't work that well or for that long,
and it's just a band-aid to the problem. So, he asked me what the next
plan would be after cortizones shots and I told him that it would be
some kind of surgery (either the nerve-cutting or the fusion) and he
said that maybe I just need to go home and get the surgery done and call
it good. Then, he basically talked to me about what I wanted to do when
I grew up and when I get back from my mission. He said I'd be a good
orothopedic surgeon (I'll keep that in consideration).
But...ah...mom....dad...I'm so sorry...I think I
just wanted to come back out on the mission so bad that I didn't
actually let myself recover that much and now I don't know what to do.
I'm in a lot of pain but I'm loving it here soooooo much too. It looks
like that they want to send me home, but we definitely do not know that
for sure...it's so embarrassing I can't even tell you....I'm really
having a hard time thinking about it right now. Luckily I have a legit
companion and I've been able to work really hard still to keep my mind
off of it....but geez. I feel like I'm really trying my hardest and it's
just not going well..
Anyway, I'm super sorry about the bad
news...Hopefully Ill have better news soon.
Still love you guys bunches,
Elder Benson